Steven Farmer’s Otter talks to us of surrender, of letting go of control. ” So you think you are in control of this situation, do you? Well, that’s something everybody thinks most of the time.  These efforts at maintaining control are most often based in habitual, conditioned fear born out of  many experiences where you witnessed others who were out of control. ….. Letting go of control doesn’t mean giving up. Giving up means throwing your hands in the air in admission of defeat.  Instead, true surrender means releasing any attempts to force your agenda on life.  It means opening your hands and heart and accepting the direction of Spirit.  “